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"We cannot become what we want by remaining what we are." - Max DePree I've never seen myself as "just a dentist." From day one, I understood I was running a business that happened to deliver dental services. Not a clinician who reluctantly dealt with business stuff. That distinction completely changed my trajectory. While my peers were figuring out how to be better technicians, I was studying business models, patient psychology, revenue optimisation, and leverage. Not because I was smarter. Because I had a different identity. I saw myself as an entrepreneur who does dentistry. They saw themselves as dentists who have to do business. Same skills. Same market. Completely different outcomes. But here's what fascinated me as I built my practice: I kept meeting incredibly talented dentists who were stuck. Not because they lacked clinical ability. Not because they didn't work hard. Not because their market was bad. They were stuck because they'd crystallised an identity that had an income ceiling built right into it. "I'm a general dentist." Translation: I do basic dentistry for basic fees and refer anything complex to people I consider more capable than me. That identity has a salary range. Usually $180,000 to $250,000. Maybe pushing $280,000 in a really good year. Not because that's all general dentistry can produce. But because that's all someone with that identity will produce. And the wild part? They can't see it. The identity feels like reality, not choice. I remember having lunch with a colleague about two years into practice. Talented guy. Great hands. Patients loved him. Stuck at $190,000. He was complaining about the income ceiling in general dentistry. How specialists made all the money. How the market was saturated. How patients just wanted cheap dentistry. I was already tracking toward $400,000 that year. Same location. Same patient demographic. Same "general dentistry." The only difference? I never accepted the identity limitations he was operating within. He saw himself as a dentist providing clinical services. I saw myself as a business operator solving complex problems through dental expertise. Same profession. Completely different identity. Order of magnitude different income trajectory. That's when I realised: most dentists aren't limited by their skills or their market. They're limited by an identity they don't even know they're trapped in. And the mechanics of the industry only matter once you have an identity that allows you to capitalise on them. The Income Bands: What Actually Separates ThemLet me show you something that nobody talks about openly but everyone experiences. There are clear income bands in dentistry. And the primary thing that determines which band you're in isn't your clinical skill or your work ethic. It's your identity. The $100,000 to $180,000 Band: The "Struggling Associate" Identity This is the dentist who sees themselves as an employee trading time for money. Their identity is built around being a competent technician who does what they're told. They don't question practice systems because that's not their role. They don't push for complex cases because they're not that kind of dentist. They don't negotiate fees because they're grateful for a job. The identity contains the limitation. And the limitation produces income in this exact range. The $180,000 to $280,000 Band: The "Comfortable General Dentist" Identity This is where most of my peers got stuck. The dentist who sees themselves as competent at bread and butter dentistry. Crown and bridge. Fillings. Straightforward endo. Refer anything complex. They're good at what they do. They work hard. They have loyal patients. But their identity has an invisible fence around it that says "this is my level." The income reflects that identity perfectly. The $280,000 to $600,000 Band: The "Comprehensive Dentist" Identity This is the first major identity shift. The dentist who sees themselves as capable of handling complexity. They do their own endo. Their own surgical extractions. Single implants. More involved aesthetic cases. They're no longer defined by what they refer out. They're defined by their expanding capability. The income jump isn't linear. It's exponential. Because the identity shift unlocked completely different case types and fee structures. The $600,000 to $1,500,000 Band: The "Advanced Clinician" Identity Another major shift. The dentist who sees themselves as an expert in specific complex domains. Full arch. Complex aesthetics. Full mouth rehabilitation. They're not doing more basic dentistry. They're doing fundamentally different dentistry. Higher complexity. Higher fees. Higher impact. The identity has completely changed what's possible. The $1,500,000+ Band: The "Clinical Business Operator" Identity The biggest shift. The dentist who sees themselves as running a clinical business, not just providing clinical care. They're thinking about systems, leverage, team multiplication, business model. They've transcended the time-for-money limitation entirely. This is where I naturally gravitated because my identity was never "dentist" in the first place. It was "business operator with dental expertise." The $5,000,000+ Band: The "Entrepreneur Who Happens to Do Dentistry" Identity The final evolution. The person who sees dentistry as one vehicle among many. They're building businesses. Making investments. Creating assets. Dentistry is their foundation. Not their ceiling. Now here's what's critical to understand: these aren't different people with different natural abilities. They're the same person at different identity stages. The clinical skills matter. The systems matter. The marketing matters. But the identity determines which skills you'll develop, which systems you'll build, which marketing you'll attempt. Everything flows from identity. The Trap: Why Most Dentists Crystallise at $200,000I need to tell you about the most dangerous thing that happens to dentists around the $200,000 income level. They get comfortable. Not financially wealthy. But comfortable enough that the discomfort of identity transformation starts to outweigh the appeal of higher income. They're making decent money. They're respected in their community. They have a stable practice. Life is predictable. The idea of completely reimagining who they are as a professional? That feels unnecessary. Risky. Uncomfortable. So they stay. They crystallise. They cement an identity that was supposed to be temporary into something permanent. And they spend the next 20 years wondering why they can't break through to the next level while refusing to even consider that their self-image might be the problem. I've watched this destroy careers. Talented dentists who could have been doing $800,000, $1,200,000, $2,000,000 if they'd been willing to shed the comfortable identity and rebuild. But they weren't willing. So they stayed exactly where they were. Getting slightly better at being a $200,000 dentist rather than transforming into something entirely different. Here's the hard truth: every income level requires killing a previous identity and building a new one. The skills you develop as a $200,000 dentist will get you to $200,000. Not to $500,000. Not to $1,000,000. To get there, you need to become a different person. With a different self-image. Different beliefs about what you're capable of. Different standards for what you accept. Most people never make that shift. Not because they can't. Because the identity they have feels too real to kill. What You Don't Know You Don't Know: The Limiting Belief FactoryHere's something that I see constantly when I talk to dentists stuck at certain income levels. The limitations they think are external reality are actually internal belief systems projected onto the world. "Patients in my area won't pay for comprehensive treatment." No. You don't believe you're the kind of dentist who attracts patients willing to pay for comprehensive treatment. "I'm not talented enough to do complex implant cases." No. You've decided your identity is "general dentist" not "implant surgeon," so you're not developing the skills that don't match your identity. "My market is too competitive to charge premium fees." No. You see yourself as a commodity provider, so you compete on price instead of value. Every single limiting belief they have is rooted in an identity that's too small for the outcomes they claim they want. And here's the insidious part: you can't see the limitations your identity creates. They just look like reality. A fish doesn't know it's in water. You don't know you're in an identity prison. Until someone shows you what's possible for people who aren't trapped in your particular identity, you genuinely believe the limitations are real. I've met dentists doing $1.8 million in personal production. Not practice revenue. Personal production. As general dentists. No specialty designation. Just doing comprehensive care at a level most think isn't possible. They don't have different market conditions. They have a different identity. Which creates different beliefs. Which drives different actions. Which produces different results. Same market. Different identity. Completely different outcome. That's when it becomes obvious: you don't know what you don't know. And the things you don't know are determined by the identity you're occupying. Want to know more? Occupy a bigger identity. The Divergence Points: Where Paths Split Based on IdentityLet me show you where careers diverge based on identity decisions. Most dentists graduate with similar skills and similar debt. Similar starting points. Five years later, their incomes range from $80,000 to $400,000. Ten years later, from $120,000 to $1,500,000. Twenty years later, from $150,000 to $10,000,000+. What created that divergence? Not talent. Not luck. Identity decisions at critical junctures. Divergence Point 1: The Associate Decision (Years 1 to 3) Path A: "I'm an associate dentist. I do what the practice owner tells me. I'm grateful for the job." This identity keeps you at associate income levels. $100,000 to $180,000. You develop basic competency. You never push boundaries because that's not your role. Path B: "I'm a developing clinician using associateship to build skills while I prepare for ownership or partnership." This identity drives skill acquisition. Leadership development. Business literacy. You're playing a different game entirely. I took Path B from day one. I never saw myself as "an associate." I saw myself as a business operator in training. Learning the mechanics of clinical delivery while simultaneously studying practice management, patient psychology, and revenue systems. Same starting point as my peers. Different identity. Completely different five year outcomes. Divergence Point 2: The Complexity Decision (Years 3 to 7) Path A: "I'm a general dentist. I do bread and butter dentistry. Anything complex gets referred." This identity caps you at $200,000 to $280,000. You get really good at crowns and fillings. But the income ceiling is built into the identity. Path B: "I'm expanding my clinical capability systematically. I'm becoming the person who handles complexity." This identity drives continuous skill development. Implant training. Aesthetic courses. Endo mastery. The income ceiling lifts dramatically. Same years of experience. Different identity. $200,000 versus $500,000 outcomes. Divergence Point 3: The Business Decision (Years 7 to 12) Path A: "I'm a dentist. I do dentistry. Business stuff is secondary." This identity keeps you trading time for money. Even at high hourly rates, you're capped by hours available. $400,000 to $700,000 ceiling. Path B: "I'm a business owner who happens to provide dentistry. Systems, leverage, and multiplication matter as much as clinical skill." This identity unlocks team leverage, multiple locations, associate production, systems multiplication. $1,000,000 to $3,000,000+ becomes possible. Same market. Different identity. Order of magnitude different outcomes. Divergence Point 4: The Wealth Decision (Years 12+) Path A: "I'm a successful dentist. Dentistry is my career and my income source." This identity, even at high income levels, keeps you dependent on active clinical work. Wealthy by normal standards. But limited by trading time for money. Path B: "I'm an entrepreneur and investor who built initial wealth through dentistry. Now I'm deploying capital across multiple vehicles." This identity transforms dentistry from career to launchpad. Real estate. Business investments. Private equity. Wealth multiplication beyond clinical production. Same high income starting point. Different identity. Completely different wealth trajectory. The Real 0.01 Percent: What Operating at the Highest Level Actually Looks LikeI need to show you what the actual top tier looks like. Not to discourage you. To expand your sense of what's possible. The dentists in the true 0.01 percent aren't just doing more dentistry. They've transcended dentistry as an identity entirely. They're not "dentists." They're operators, investors, and builders who happen to have expertise in dentistry. What This Actually Looks Like: They're doing $3,000,000 to $8,000,000+ in personal clinical production. Not through insane hours. Through systems, positioning, and team leverage. But that's just the foundation. They're running multiple practices with associate production adding millions more. They're investing profits into real estate, businesses, private equity. They're building wealth that compounds independently of their clinical work. They've created asymmetric upside where their income isn't capped by hours or even by practice capacity. And here's what separates them from everyone else: they don't see themselves as dentists who do some business. They see themselves as business operators and investors who have dental expertise. The identity shift unlocked everything else. Most dentists can't even conceive of operating at this level. Not because it's impossible. Because their identity makes it literally unthinkable. "That's not what dentists do." Exactly. That's not what people with a "dentist" identity do. But people with an "operator and investor" identity who happen to have dental skills? They do it all the time. The Serendipity Factor: Why Opportunity Finds Fluid IdentitiesHere's something subtle but critical about fixed versus fluid identity. Opportunities you can't currently imagine require an identity that's open to becoming something you're not yet. Let me give you a concrete example. About 18 months ago, a colleague approached me about a partnership opportunity. Multi-location practice with sophisticated systems and significant growth potential. If I'd had a fixed "I'm a solo practitioner" identity, I would have immediately thought: "That's not my model. I work alone." The opportunity would have passed me by entirely because my identity couldn't accommodate it. But I've always maintained fluid identity. I'm not attached to being "the solo dentist" or "the multi-location operator." I'm attached to building value and creating leverage. So I could evaluate it objectively. "Is this opportunity aligned with where I'm trying to go? Do the numbers work? Can I develop the skills required?" Different identity fluidity. Different ability to even perceive the opportunity. And here's what's wild: the opportunities that transform your trajectory are almost always things you can't currently do. If you could already do them, they wouldn't be transformational. They'd be incremental. The transformational opportunities require you to become someone you're not yet. Fixed identity: "That's not who I am. I can't do that." Fluid identity: "That's not who I am yet. Could I become that?" The people crushing it at the highest levels? They have incredibly fluid identities. They're not attached to being "the dentist who does X." They're attached to results and impact. If becoming a different person gets them closer to those results? They shed their current identity and build a new one. That fluidity creates serendipity. Opportunities find them because they're not identity-trapped into automatically saying no to anything that doesn't fit their current self-image. How to Actually Kill and Rebuild Your Professional IdentityAlright, enough philosophy. How do you actually do this? How do you kill an identity that feels completely real and build a new one that currently feels impossible? Here's the systematic approach I've observed working with dozens of practitioners who've made these transitions. Phase 1: Identity Audit (Week 1)Spend one week documenting your current identity with brutal honesty. How do you introduce yourself? What do you say you're "not good at" or "not the type to do"? What opportunities do you automatically dismiss as "not for me"? What's the income range you unconsciously expect for someone like you? Write it all down. This is your current identity prison. You need to see the bars before you can break them. Phase 2: Future Identity Design (Week 2)Now design the identity that would produce the outcomes you actually want. What would someone earning $500,000 see themselves as? What would someone doing complex full arch cases believe about their capabilities? What would someone running multiple locations identify as? Don't just describe actions. Describe identity. The self-image that would make those actions natural. Phase 3: The Identity Shedding Ritual (Week 3)This sounds woo-woo but it's psychologically powerful. You need a clean break moment where you consciously kill the old identity. One practitioner I know literally wrote out his old identity on paper: "I am just a general dentist who does basic crown and bridge work and refers anything complex." Then he burned it. Actually set it on fire. Symbolic? Absolutely. Effective? Shockingly yes. The ritual creates psychological separation. Old identity is dead. New identity begins. Phase 4: Borrowed Identity Experimentation (Month 2-3)Here's a technique that accelerates everything. You can't become a new identity overnight. But you can borrow one temporarily to test it. "For the next month, I'm going to act as if I'm the kind of dentist who confidently takes on complex cases." Not pretending. Not fake it till you make it. Consciously borrowing an identity to experiment with behaviours. What would that person do when a complex case walks in? Take it on with appropriate support. What would that person charge? Market rates for expertise. How would that person present treatment? With authority and confidence. You're borrowing the identity to test drive the behaviours. After a month, some of those behaviours feel natural. They start integrating into your actual identity. Phase 5: Evidence Accumulation (Month 3-6)Your brain believes evidence more than affirmations. So you systematically create evidence for your new identity. Take on cases that match the new identity. Document successes. Charge fees that match the new identity. Record acceptances. Have conversations that match the new identity. Note outcomes. Every success is evidence. "Someone with this identity does these things. I did these things. I'm becoming this identity." Your brain updates based on accumulated evidence. Phase 6: Integration and Next Evolution (Month 6+)Eventually, the new identity just feels like you. You're no longer borrowing it. You're inhabiting it. That's when you repeat the process with the next identity evolution. From "comprehensive dentist" to "advanced clinician." From "advanced clinician" to "clinical business operator." From "clinical business operator" to "entrepreneur investor." Each evolution requires killing the previous identity and building the next one. The Liquidity Loop: How Fluid Identity Creates Fluid OpportunityHere's the pattern I've observed in the highest performers. Fluid identity creates openness to unexpected opportunities. Opportunities seized create new capabilities and results. New capabilities and results require updated identity. Updated identity creates openness to next level opportunities. It's a self-reinforcing cycle. Each identity evolution unlocks opportunities that force the next identity evolution. But it only works if you maintain identity liquidity. If you crystallise at any point, the loop stops. "I'm a successful implant dentist" crystallises into "I only do implants." Then an opportunity comes along to expand into full arch or aesthetics or practice acquisition. But your crystallised identity makes you automatically dismiss it. The loop breaks. Growth stops. Versus maintaining fluidity: "I'm currently focused on implant dentistry but I'm not my current focus. I'm someone who builds capability in valuable domains." Same opportunity. Different identity. You can evaluate it objectively instead of identity-rejecting it automatically. The liquidity allows the loop to continue. The Practical Framework: Your 90 Day Identity EvolutionHere's your implementation system: Days 1-7: Document Current Identity Write out exactly how you see yourself professionally. The labels you use. The capabilities you claim. The limitations you accept. Days 8-14: Design Target Identity Define the identity that would naturally produce outcomes you want. Not just behaviours. Core self-image. Day 15: Ritual Break Consciously kill old identity through some symbolic act. Burn the paper. Delete the document. Mark the break. Days 16-45: Borrowed Identity Testing For 30 days, consciously borrow target identity. Act as that person would act. Make decisions that person would make. Notice what feels impossible versus just uncomfortable. Days 46-75: Evidence Creation Systematically create proof that you're becoming this identity. Take on aligned cases. Have aligned conversations. Charge aligned fees. Document every success. Days 76-90: Integration Assessment Evaluate what's integrated. What parts of borrowed identity now feel natural? What needs more work? Then either continue integrating current target identity or begin designing next evolution. Ninety days. One complete identity evolution cycle. Four cycles per year. Four identity evolutions annually. In three years, you're literally a different person operating at a completely different level. Not through some mystical transformation. Through systematic identity evolution. The Reality Check: This Isn't for EveryoneI need to be honest about something. Not everyone will do this. Not everyone needs to. If you're genuinely happy and fulfilled at $200,000 as a general dentist, there's nothing wrong with that. This isn't about making everyone chase maximum income. It's about removing the invisible barriers for people who want more but can't figure out why they're stuck. And for those people, identity is almost always the invisible barrier. But it requires work most won't do. Killing comfortable identities is psychologically difficult. Building new ones requires sustained discomfort. Most people will read this, think it's interesting, and continue operating within their current identity because that's easier. And that's genuinely fine. But if you're someone who's been stuck at a certain level while feeling capable of more, and you've tried everything except examining your core self-image? This might be exactly what you need to hear. Your identity isn't you. It's a story you tell about you. And stories can be rewritten. The question is whether you're willing to pick up the pen. What identity are you currently trapped in that you know you need to shed? What's the self-image that's creating your current ceiling? I'm genuinely curious what you're realising about your own identity limitations as you read this. Message me on Instagram @waleedarshadd or reply to this email. Sometimes just naming the identity prison is the first step toward escaping it. Waleed |
There's a fundamental difference in how top performers think about practice growth. Based on real-conversations with high-performing individuals.
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